I think I have made a terrible parenting mistake from when my children were babies. I have a 6 and a 4 yr old and they have hundreds of toys but they do not have any idea how to play without adult interacttion. When they were babies I always took them out and spent lots of time playing with them and I never used the TV till they were about 3. Now I can get nothing done because they will not watch TV, and will not play unless me or my DH are playing with them. This holidays has really highlighted it as they got loads of new toys but cannot entertain themselves. They would play for hours if I played with them but when it is the holidays housework etc needs to be done. They love being out and we spend lots of time at the park or the beach and I have never stayed in for a whole day until these holidays where the weather has been so damned awful. They are extremely active and have gone out on their bikes with my dh this morning. Any ideas how I can get them playing more without adult interaction? I have a friend who never takes her daughter out much and very rarely plays with her but she plays beautifully. Sometimes I wish I hadnt done so much with them then they wouldnt expect it now and would play on their own!!
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peppajay · 03/01/2013 08:34
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