So twice in the last month I have been asked if I have alot of support at home. (Postnatal stuff dd is 8 weeks old)
Twice I have said yes.
However dh works long hours (out from 6am till 8pm most weekdays)
He does virtually nothing to help in the evening (perhaps understandable)
However, he also sees weekends as leisure time. Yes he plays with older 2 dc's and will cook a meal and maybe load the diswasher once a weekend but that's about it.
I do all the care for my 8 weeker who is still waking alot at night. (ebf) and I also have a 7 and 5 year old to care for. (at least they are at school)
MIL helped whilst I was in hospital but not since. I do not have any family who can help.
I am still trying to catch up on the ironing I was unable to do post section.
However, I think overall I am coping well so don't feel it's appropriate to make a fuss. Although I will encourage dh to do more.
What do you think?
How much help do you get?
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Would you admit your dp/ dh was less than supportive?
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yorks05 · 13/11/2012 10:50
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