Dd is nearly 9. She seems to get on with most at school, generally but often comes home hurt by things that have been said to her by one particular girl at school and lately, she is talking in her sleep a lot about things that have upset her at school. This one girl started off by wanting to be her friend last and going out of her way to initiate the friendship and then turned on dd and started bullying her and encouraging others not to play with her. I got this sorted out by speaking to the teacher.
This year there seems to be a general atmosphere in her class where the girls are always bickering and leaving each other out, etc, breaking promises and so on. I am sure this is to do with their age and that things will settle down as they get older but I don't know what to say to dd when she comes home feeling hurt because someone promised to play with her and then didn't etc. At this time I do not think she is being bullied by anyone so I don't need to speak to the teacher I just need to help her protect herself.
Any advice? Has anyone read Queen Bees and Wannabes? I wondered if this book is appropriate for her age yet?
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How to deal with that phase of girls at school, age 7-9ish, leaving each other out & being nasty etc
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perceptionreality · 30/10/2012 15:00
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