DS is 22 months and I am a bit despairing.
He has no brothers or sisters and we live abroad so no family. I am SAHM and DH works. Therefore linking in with local playgroup and toddler group scene is the only contact with adults/parents I get.
However, DS is not good at playing with other children. Fair enough, he is small and collaborative play with pals I understand is a later thing when they are nearer 3. However, when we go to playgroup, he escapes or goes to door trying to get out. If we go to the park, he runs off, far away, fast. He will toy with toys a bit but won't sit and concentrate on anything. Basically he just likes doing his own thing, in his own world and then checking in with me periodically.
So we go for walks and swims and up and down stairs and in lifts. At home he plays happily rushing about with his toy Hoover or banging in his toy kitchen or climbing his small indoor slide thing. He watches Peppa Pig. He loves stories and cuddling and hide and seek.
But I get fed up whenever I try to hag out with a group of other parents and see them chatting while their DC play in the park or the fountains or at soft play. Their DC stay near to their parents and stay vaguely in one place. I take my eyes off DS for a nano second and whoosh, he is gone.
I have reins but can't hold him in them whilst I chat. They are just for when we are walking about.
I am lonely and feel antisocial and think the other parents think I am stuck up because I never hang about and talk with them. I've stopped going to playgroup.
I do a coupe of music singing dancing toddler classes a week where they are all in a room. The other children walk in a circle or watch whats going on with interest. DS repeatedly escapes, runs round room, wanders about, goes to the door unless picked up and carted about by me, in which case he wriggles like a greased pilot and complains.
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NapOfTheDamned · 26/10/2012 20:14
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