My DD will be 3 in December. She was born with large sticky out ears and one ear sticks out much more than the other and has no cartilage shape to it, just smooth. I think this lack of shape is the reason it just curls out loads IYSWIM.
I didn't care much when she was a baby as they didn't seem as bad. Also, in the big scheme of things I didn't think it was important- she is healthy. Now im worried on account of how vain she has become .
Everywhere we go she gets comments as she is very cute with huge eyes. Particularly old ladies "oh what a gorgeous girl you are" "look at her hair", "what a pretty dress" etc As a result she is sooo bloody vain.
I have to fight with her to get her out of dresses and into something warm/sensible.
She always wants to take her coat off/cardigan off so everyone can see her "pretty dress" . She drives me nuts.
She is obsessed with princesses. It's not as if I sat her down at 2 and told her about princesses but little girls seem to be drawn to all that stuff.
At the moment her ears obviously mean nothing to her but I don't think this will last. Luckily nobody notices as yet as she has tons of gorgeous hair. It is fine and falls into big ringlets naturally.
Unfortunately my hair was the very same as a little girl. My mum has told me about my amazing hair when I was little which always surprised me as I have the worst fine hair and not much of it. I have to wear it up in a ponytail as it is not worth having down. It's like my head has been in a bush fire ! She will be the same but wearing her hair up doesn't suit her at all, they are bad.
Now im thinking about my DD. Once she gets to 7-ish the big curls will go and these ears, well one of them, is going to stick out of her fine hair.
I remember my friend who had her ears pinned back at 13. Before it she was so paranoid and avoided all sports, especially swimming.
I don't want my DD to go through an operation or ask to have one as I would never ever want her going under anesthetic for something unnecessary.
I have googled other alternatives and sites have come up with kits you can buy for ?330. Obviously im dubious and was wondering if anyone has any experience of using alternatives. Im also worried im too late for this as alot seemed aimed at babies.
Any advice?
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DD has terrible misshappen ears - advice needed
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quickchat · 21/10/2012 22:03
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