My son has always been happy, collaborative, outgoing and kind. We moved area and school in May this year so a big change in his life. He has two younger siblings. He appears to have settled in well at school and have lots of friends who he plays with after school.
Recently he his behavior, and personality it seems, has totally changed. He sometimes blatantly refuses to do things, responds rudely, fights with his siblings and just don't collaborate us at all including lashing out and trying to kick us during confontations. It often ends in screaming matches which is horrible for us all. My husband and I have tried being very gentle with him considering he has gone through a big change but also need to make it clear his behaviour is unacceptable. We have tried to be very strict, we have tried talking, we have tried rewarding, we have tried withdrawing, we have tried going away with him on his own for attention and quality time, we have tried and changes routines. Etc etc. There is still no change. I feel as if I am loosing my beautiful kind boy who is turning into a little sh*t quite frankly. Meanwhile, I feel like an awful, failed mother who can't deal with it and my responses get increasingly unsympathetic. My husband and I have said we just have to try and ride it out and keep strong, withot too much conflict, but it's getting to a point where I feel clueless and really upset each day.
Please, does anyone have any suggestions, how to handle his behavior, and maybe support for us? Thank you!
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Help, Im totally loosing control of my 7 year old and his behaviour is affecting s all!
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Nena7 · 19/10/2012 09:31
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