I don't think I realised how easy it was to parent DS1 at this age! DS2 is much more challenging. He does the usual 3 yo stuff but also will be very mean to his 7 yo brother (kicking him etc) and when it's directed at DS1 I obviously need to be seen to be taking it seriously. When DS1 was this age I'd have a nice chat with him and he would listen, go of and have a thik adn then apologise and generally not do it again. When I try to talk to DS2 he laughs and runs off. This make me very cross.
I don't approve of smacking, naughty steps etc. Because it's all quite instant behaviour there's often no time to give warnings so I can't do sanctions in those situations. In my frustration I have done the classic "right, you're not having the cake I promised you" thing but of course it doesn't make him sorry, only resentful. Or he apologiss just to get the cake. I want him to do what DS1 was able to do; reflect on what he's done and offer a genuine and sincere apology.
Any ideas?
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TheHAUNTEDHouseofMirth · 15/10/2012 13:05
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