My best mate has had a baby recently. She's lovely and I'm thrilled for her. I went to visit her for a full day a couple of weeks ago when baby was 8 weeks old. It was the first time we had spent any time together since baby arrived and we were both looking forward to it.
I had anticipated a day of holding baby while my mate got on with showering or whatever else she needed to do but it turned out very differently. I arrived at 10am and by 4pm I had to actually ask if I could hold the baby. She was fine with handing her over but if I hadn't asked I don't think she would have offered. She took her back when she needed a (bottle) feed - I would have loved to feed her but didn't say anything.
I know it's a different experience for every parent but do you think this is unusual? I'm not a parent but I work with babies and young children so she knows I'm not clueless around them and wasn't going to break her! I have spoken to two parents I know who were really surprised about this, one said my friend sounded 'possessive' of her baby.
I'm not going to say anything to her about this but I just wanted to pick some parents' brains - I don't know if I am a bit unreasonable but I was disappointed at not being allowed to hold her more. I know it's not the end of the world either way, just curious
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Lottapianos · 28/09/2012 14:21
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