I would love for my 3 year old to do swimming lessons (we live near the beach she really does need to learn) and to do ballet (even if its just as a pre-schooler, doesn't every girl do ballet at some point - and the "baby ballet" near us is mainly fun based and looks great) and to do gymnastics/tramp (she did it for a while when she was 2 and often talks about it - there is a great place near us with proper equipment and its a great start for all sports) and she loves music lessons.
She also does pre-school 2 mornings a week (will be 3 in April).
So er- firstly that seems too much swim, ballet, gym, music AND pre-school does seem a lot to do. There is another part of my head that wants to just take her out running and exploring countryside and playing lots and not have her doing tons of structured bits.
And secondly we actually couldn't afford to do all that. We really can't afford to do any of it in that we're having to decide priorities. We don't buy new clothes much, eat simply, tiny house so not money or room for many toys... but a huge part of me wants to give her a chance to do things I didn't.
Any idea which of the above you'd prioritise? Does/did your 3 year old do any activities/ lots? Or should I wait until she's at school and just let her play now?
its a minefield isn't it. I do wish we had lots of money! They may "only" be £5 a session but if I was to do that every day we couldn't afford that!
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