I was at my mums yesterday and my sister who was up visiting from plymouth was there. My ds of 5yrs was with me and was sleeping at my mums, so i did his reading book at practiced his spellings with him for about 30mins. Then i said he could go and watch tv. My sister the teacher then proceeded to go on at me saying that i didnt care about his education and i dont put a big enough emphasis on schoolwork and being the best in the class. I got quite annoyed especially when she said he was below the standard he should be at. I'm now worried that what she said was true however i just love him for who he is and feel that 30mins homework a night is adequate. I dont want him to feel bad and have low self esteem this is what she said would happen to him if he wasnt clever at school. I thought he was average in the class but i feel really guilty now. Am i doing things wrong? Should he be doing more than that at home? Who thinks its true that kids at the top of the class have more self esteem?
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