My mum died when I was a child and I don?t really have many memories of her. I had ds last year but I am struggling a bit at the moment and I think it?s because I don?t really have a role model. When I say I?m struggling, I don?t think that?s the right word really as I don?t have any particular issues with ds, and I?m happy with the choices we have made so far (I wouldn?t do anything different next time) and he is a happy little boy. I think I have built up in my head this image of an idealised ?mother figure? and mother /child relationship and I am terrified that I am not going to live up to that. DH continually reassures me he thinks I am doing a great job, but I am just really frightened that I am going to let my son down somehow.
I was just wondering if there was anyone out there who has a clue what I am waffling on about?
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Does anyone else on here not remember their mum?
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Cosmosis · 11/11/2011 12:39
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