DS, just turned 4, is absolutely mad about football, it is all he wants to do. We have always encouraged him, he currently goes to football club once a week, and we were just about to let him go twice a week. We also regularly take him to the park for a kick about. The last couple of weeks we have had tears on leaving football because he has not scored a goal.
Today however he took it to a whole new level and had a full on tantrum when they were told to stop playing. This was apparently because he wanted to keep playing until he scored again. He punished himself by doing it as all the children get stickers at the end, and he missed out because he was busy having a strop.
I was so embarrassed, and I am not sure what I should do now. I do not in general think being competitive is a bad thing, but he takes it way too far, every time he doesn't win at anything we have tears. He has been told over and over that he can't always win but he just does not seem to get it.
If anyone has any suggestions on how to address this I would be very grateful!
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Help please, not sure what to do with super competitive 4 year old DS.
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Notinmykitchen · 23/10/2011 12:25
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