My almost 11 mo DS is at the peak of separation anxiety, and starting nursery is coming at exactly the wrong time. We've had 5 settling in hours at nursery and so far he's played happily for the time I've been with him, and cried constantly and refused to be put down when I'm not there. The one time I left him for an hour he kept it up the whole time and was shattered.
It's wrecking his confidence away from nursery, he now clings and cries much more, screaming when I walk away from him. He even reacts to DH, visitors and anyone leaving the room - any separation seems to be a threat.
The nursery are being brilliant, giving us extra settle sessions, and the key worker is even coming over for an hour on Sunday to play with him at home. I always say goodbye cheerfully and briefly, and greet him with a big smile when I come back (he doesn't know about sobbing in the carpark in between). For his next settle we'll take his comfort jellycat.
Is there anything else I can do apart from not going back to work or toughing it out? Glimpses of light much needed in this dark end-of-maternity-leave tunnel...
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settling in at nursery a disaster - tips and wisdom needed!
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MoJangles · 30/09/2011 22:38
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