Hi,
I wish to relocate my children (11yrs and 6yrs) to Sheffield, where I grew up and where all my family are based. However their father is attempting to put a Section 8 Prohibition Court Order on a possible relocation on us, insisting we stay in London. Ironic since he walked out on his children four years ago and left me devastated and getting on with it. I have tried to communicate diplomatically with their Dad over email, but he is having nothing to do with it and insisting on being cold and using his Solicitor to represent him. I understood that mediation is necessary prior to court in any case. I am happy to attend mediation, shame he isn't.
Now things are rosy again (divorced, new long term BF and ex has a lovely partner too) I now wish to vacate the expensive house I live in here in London and move back to my roots where all my family are and much more support, love, safety and freedom for my children - and some excellent schools.
However I was surprised at a Solicitors letter from my ex, insisting I attend a Court hearing next Monday, in Cambridge (!!) Maybe I could represent myself as I cannot afford legal fees and don't think I am entitled to free legal advice, but I wouldn't know what to expect or what to do? I was wondering if anyone else has been faced with this or similar... when all they want is a wonderful childhood for their children like me. How did you deal with it, what is the process?
Currently I live in Tottenham which is fabulous but not the best place to bring up kids. The Peak District is beautiful and they can romp in peace and me live with less anxiety. Happy Mummy equals happy kids - and with plenty of visits to Dad's.
I have always encouraged access since my ex-husband left me and our kids for another woman. I introduced morning school pick-ups to his routine and my elder boy (at the time 10yrs) suggested seeing Daddy Wednesdays, note it wasn't daddy's idea! He has them every other weekend which would be important for them to still see him and possibly even longer in the holidays to maintain the bond they have with him - and indeed their London friends.
What should I do if I can't afford a Solicitor? All advice very welcome. This is a tough one.
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CuriousMe · 27/09/2011 22:18
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