I have DS1 - 5.5yrs Year 1, DS2 - 3- Nursery, DS3 - 1 year.
I am having a nightmare on the school run and it is really getting me down. DS2 has just started Nursery and although he is fine once there, is screaming and crying all the way there (half hour walk). He says he doesn't want to go, doesn't want me to go etc. He loves it once there and I know I'm only 3 weeks in but I thought it would have become a bit better by now.
This is having an adverse reaction on DS1 who loves school but starts to copy DS2, so this morning I had to carry DS1 into his classroom, kicking and screaming, whilst a friend held DS2 and rocked a screaming DS3. DS1 was fine once separated from DS2's upsetting behavior and settled in well like the great child he normally is.
I could then get DS3 out of buggy (to stop him screaming) to get DS2 into Nursery, who is just awful at me leaving him. I don't know where he has learnt it from but he screams I need to go to hospital, I am ill etc. and it is just so heartbreaking. He physically shakes he gets himself so upset.
I have tried leaving him with keys/cuddly toy and always promise I will come back.
Any other ideas greatly appreciated. I am tired of being the Mum leaving the school in tears because the children are so upset. Where have I gone so wrong?
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tortoisefairy · 21/09/2011 12:51
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