Hi all, I have two wonderful DDs aged 3.9 and 18months. Am feeling overwhelmingly broody just now, but aware that a third child is probably beyond me/us as a family.
I know the ridiculous broodiness is probably in part because DD2 is just going through that transition from baby to toddler, and so, in a sense I'm missing my baby (no coincidence that it was at this point with DD1 I hot pregnant with DD2!) and thus it may pass, but got a number if months I have a real head/heart battle going on - I could to with gearing your experiences and probably for some of you to talk sone sense into me a wee bit!
Head says we can't afford a third child. Heart says we probably could if we lowered out expectations of what we could do for them somewhat (I.e. Private school would be out).
Head says I can barely keep everything going with the two I have, heart says I'd manage, but the house would probably be a tip.
Head says you and your girls have been lucky to survive your first two births, don't risk it again, heart says it'll probably be fine, but maybe you'll have to have a CS, and if so, Di what?!
Head says your body is already knackered, you'll fester it completely if you have another. Heart says, if it's already destroyed, what the hell!?
Head says you'll never get any semblance if your career back if you have a third - you'll pay out more in childcare than you could ever earn. Heart says, do you love it that much any more anyway?
Head says, do you realty want to make DD2 a middle child? Heart gets upset about this.
Head says life's really good with the two you have, why risk it? Heart says, but I just want another baby!!!!!!!!!
Help please. I'm turning into a fruitcake.
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Third child or not - please talk some sense into me
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designerbaby · 05/09/2011 23:12
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