Hi guys, just wondered for those of you who have 3 kids already or are currently on your third pregnancy, how did you make the decision to go for no 3?
I had fairly straightforward pregnancy with DS1, but he was a difficult baby (very colicky, silent reflux, poor sleeper etc.). With DS2 I had a terrible pregnancy with exhaustion, dehydration and low bp due to hyperemesis, excruciating SPD and every other symptom you can think of! But he has been a dream of a baby and very settled now.
After my last pregnancy I said to myself that's it no more! But DH told me last night he really wants to go again in the next 6 months. I knew that he wanted more children but this is the first time we've really properly discussed it and he is so keen. He'd love to go again now if he could.
It's a bad time for me as I've just lost all my baby weight from DS1 and DS2 and feeling good at the minute. I'm starting up my own business and that takes up so much of my time right now. I'm also petrified that the pregnancy will be even more difficult than last time, or that we mightn't be so lucky again and the next baby could be colicky and unsettled like DS1 was for so long.
But then, none of these things are going to go away by waiting, so if we are going to have a third, why not do it now?
I'm meant to be working now but find myself thinking of being pregnant again, and baby names, and all sorts! So does that mean I am ready for another???
Then there is the practicalities and expense, we have a large house so that isn't an issue, but what about cars? Will we need to get 7 seater if we have 3 car seats? And childcare?
Sorry such a long rant, but those of you that have been there, would really appreciate your advice!
Thanks xo
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
Deciding to have a third baby - advice needed!
20 replies
rosiemama · 30/08/2011 12:13
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.