During our marriage the ex had at least one affair and was carrying on with the other woman when he made the decision to leave me and 2 dcs in nov 2008.
I have always maintained a silence as to the real reason why he left as I saw no need to upset the dcs any further.
However things have been very difficult with my dd recently, culminating in her agreeing with her father that I am a useless mother and that she would be better of living with her dad!
Having spoken to many experienced people I made the decision that she should have the opportunity to go and live with him on a temporary basis so that she can decide for herself,
I know he has sold her a story of how mummy and daddy split up because they were not getting on, and not the real truth. My dd is going to live with a women who is/was instrumental in the breakdown of her family, my question is does she have a right to know the truth?