I have two young toddlers who are generally good at sharing (Probably because they are used to it being so close in age). DNephew is around the same age as them and is not great at sharing (not judging, no child is perfect except mine )
He often takes toys form other children etc. My eldest toddler is not great at sicking up for himself and if a child tries to take something off him he will usually just hand it over. I am trying to teach him to stick up for himself by saying 'can i have that back please' etc
Yesterday, ds1 was playing with a toy and DN came over and tried to take it off him. Ds heldd the toy tight as dn was pulling it and he looked at me as if to say help me! Dn was screeching at this point and sil said to my ds 'give DN a turn and then you can have it back' Ds gave him the toy. I didnt really know what to do so did nothing.
I felt bad after as i have been trying to get ds to stick up for himself and i let him be walked over..I felt I should have said 'no DN, Ds is just having a go, when he is finished you can have a turn' but thn is this the right thing to do?
I know i should also teach ds to share so what is the sharing etiquette among children???
I said it to dp last night and he thought i should have said to sil that im trying to teach him to stick up for himself so DN can have a go in a minute.
The same thing happened again today and i said nothing again!!!
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Toddler sharing etiquette
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BoysRusxxx · 17/08/2011 13:27
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