DD2 is 2 in September and sucks her thumb and has a toy lion that she loves, she holds his tag (which is now in tatters) and holds him close to her face while she is sucking her thumb, thing is in the last few months she has become very dependent on the lion and carries him everywhere and today her minders at her daycare said they felt she was too dependent on her teddy and they wanted to limit her use of it (today they took it away for a while and apparently got so upset she went for a sleep afterwards, which she's doesn't usually do)
I can understand that she does need to be able to be away from the teddy cause at the moment she can't be, but they seemed to be relating the teddy dependence to her social skills saying that she doesn't interact with the other kids, she interacts with other kids fine as far as I can see. I also don't see the harm in having the teddy sometimes, surely there are a lot of much older kids who need a teddy with them all the time?
I'm kind of torn on the whole thing, opinions please????
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niamh29 · 11/08/2011 14:36
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