I would just like a few tips on how to cope really. I adore my children, but I feel a bit at the end of my tether.
I have an almost three year old (will be three in September) and a 5 month old baby. The baby is EBF, so I'm not getting that much sleep, which obviously makes things worse. The toddler is a sweet, funny affectionate little boy, but he is incredibly strong willed, and right now is into saying NO to everything.
Examples: he will not come down to eat his dinner, or go up to brush his teeth before nursery. He will not want to go to bed. He will REFUSE to leave the neighbours' house after playing with their children, to the point that I have to put down the baby and cart him out.
I try turning things into a game, I try explaining and reasoning "you need to have a bath because you are dirty from the playground and blah, blah, blah", and I also sometimes get angry (that is BY FAR the worst option with the worst results, but I just can't help it sometimes).
While all this negotiating, cajoling, bargaining and telling off is going on, the (sometimes clingy) five month old wants attention/boobie/is tired. As a result of the whining toddler and the crying baby and the slightly fuzzy head due to sleep deprivation I confess to occasionally sinking into despair. I also seem to be incapable of doing things on time and am late for EVERYTHING. His bedtime is also slipping due to all the shenanigans we have to go through before he will stay in his bed (story, song, cuddles, etc).
How do you cope with your wilful toddlers? Is there a way to make them a bit more compliant or is this just a case of "this too shall pass"?
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Toddler induced exhaustion
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TwoAndaHalfNeurons · 08/07/2011 09:51
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