in a shop today a 4/5 year old ran past me and hit me as he went. I did the pathetic wishy washy voice that never works and told him not to hit. He then went up to my 6 year old and full on right hook punched him in the face.
Gone was wishy washy woman and I shouted (at first, was shocked) then did calm but deadly cross mum voice on him. Not that he cared as he back chatted me and said he was allowed to punch people in the face.
He then ran and got his mum who did the pathetic wishy washy mum voice on me and apologised and told him not to hit.
Arsehole me then does the stupid simpering laugh and said it was okay, it happens blah blah blah.
What. The. Jeff?
Why do I feel embarrassed and go red and laugh it off so as not to upset the other parent? I do it all the chuffing time.
I was cross and rightly so but don't know how to put that across to the other parent without it sounding like I'm being aggressive or wanting to start an argument.
I don't want to make a drama of it but also don't want to say oh it's okay. I always say that phrase, gah! Not so bad when it's a stranger but when it's a parent of one of DS's friends I don't want to be the simpering walkover lady, iykwim.
What do you do/say in these situations?
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How do you react when you've told off someone's child and the parent speaks to you about it?
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Umopaplsdn · 01/07/2011 19:45
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