Hi,
I am a thirty year old mother of a lovely 10 week old boy and I can't find anyone like me.
My husband and I are very fortunate that our son sleeps very well, he has slept through the night since 5 and a half weeks (on thevery rare occaision that he now wakes earlier than 6am I give him a dummy and he settles very quickly) and has 2 three hour and 2 two hour naps a day. I have followed the advice given by the baby whisperer and after feeding and changing either my husband or I will play with him untill he shows signs of tiredness (usually about 30 mins). Occaisionally he will cry between feeds for a few mins and we leave him to soothe himself - when I know he is warm and safe and isn't hungry then I will leave him for up to 20 mins. Sometimes I worry that I'm doing the wrong thing, but he seems very content and is growing very well.
I dont want to keep him awake for longer as this makes him over tired and whilst I show him high contrast books, read and sing to him etc, I dont use other toys as I don't want to overstimulate him. I am aware that there is so much information that he has to assimilate every time he opens his eyes that at the moment simply calmly looking around the room is enough to entertain him.
All the other ladies with babies who I have met through NCT or prenatal yoga seem to feed completely on demand and because we are using different parenting methods and ideas I feel I dont have a lot in common with them. When we meet up they talk about nothing but their babies, and I would like to talk about my other interests as well and actually use my brain again - its therefore great when I meet up with my childless friends.
I love my baby very much and do all I can for him, the way I do it is just very different from all parents I already know. Please if you have similar parenting methods or ideas please get in touch. I need reasurance that Im not completely alone in what I am doing.
Thanks, I look forward to hearing from you.
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Harriet81 · 07/06/2011 14:29
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