I am normally quite happy with life and have a loving dh and two wonderful children
However recently I have been feeling exhausted and a bit low. It culminated at the weekend with an awful incident where I lashed out at my 2 year old dd. I took her out for a walk and she screamed and screamed because she doesn't like the wind. Understandable since the gales we had. Something just snapped and I picked her up by her coat and shoved her in her pram quite hard. I then picked up her cuddly toy and shoved it in her face, my hand caught her head and left a faint bruise
This has never happened before and my dh whilst not condoning it, says I should forgive myself and move on. That I didn't intend to hurt her. However on some level I know I did want to hurt - not her specifically. I lost control and lashed out but it was not her fault. Now I am eaten up with guilt and feel like a monster. She is okay, I know she didn't really understand as I have never even so much as smacked before.
I just needed to talk to someone, anyone. No one in real life seems to admit to losing it. I don't know, if I get a flaming I deserve it. I just hoped I was not the only one, that there isn't something seriously wrong with me. I adore my dd, we have a lovely bond. I also have a 5year old ds whom I love dearly.
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I lashed out at my toddler and am disgusted with myself
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addressbook · 31/05/2011 10:22
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