It's naptime. ds (4.1) has had stories, a song, and abundant ritualistic kissing, by now he wants his brown blanket. Said blanket is in laundry on account of having been saturated by leaky nappy this morning. ds knows this.
"Sorry, it's still in the wash. You can have your bear blanket or your truck blanket."
"I WANT MY BROWN BLANKET RIGHT NOW!"
Variations of this discussion have played out in what should be the closing minutes of the last four or five bedtimes (for brown blanket, substitute the missing water bottle, the lost book, some random toy). It may be accompanied by drumming of heels on wall, screeching or roaring, while 2yo dd is trying to get off to sleep next door.
Reasoning doesn't work.
Ignoring him doesn't work.
Carting him out and making him sit alone on the sofa for ten or so minutes does work ("mama, what was I having a tantrum about?"), although
a) I still then have to get him back to bed, with extra settling because he's wound himself up
b) he's then tired and crabby the next day or afternoon
c) this is no way to conduct a civilised bedtime, and
d) I feckin want my feckin no-kids time
I've got no idea where this came from, although I suspect it's a mutated form of the "I can't get to sleep" shouts which translated accurately to, "I don't want you to go, mama" and which seem to be related to his having started kindy a couple of months ago. He likes kindy, but since starting he's regressed a bunch of habits ("I need you to feed me, mama.") and I am going coco bananas without a feckin clue.
help, please. I really wanted to smack him today.
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"I want my brown blanket RIGHT NOW!"
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phdlife · 08/05/2011 05:05
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