Sorry if this theme has come up before, but when do kids get easier to look after?
I read somewhere that 12-18 months was in some way the toughest phase, because the child is developing their motor skills, a thirst for independence etc....but with language skills lagging behind physical skills, can't be reasoned with, and gets frustrated by their own limitations.
My 14 month old is driving me mad currently. She has more toys than any other toddler that I know, but she eyes them all with a disdainful ennui and won't play with them for more than 2 seconds. She then mooches around the house like a miniature bored teenager with a strop on, looking disenchanted with life....(and constantly wanting to be super glued to my side). I am a total slave to her, and when I am at home and not working (thank god for the break that work gives me) have to arrange twice daily excursions for her to keep her occupied.
I can't go shopping any more (because she won't wait calmly in her push chair whilst I try something on), and a cappuchino in a coffee bar is a distant memory as are meals out (she won't sit still for more than a fleeting few moments).
I have this hope that when she is an older child (perhaps 5 or 6)- of course there will be other age related challenges, but I might get the occasional half hour long period of relative peace whilst she plays with friends / her toys / draws a picture / watches a kiddie video etc. Since at that age they should be marginally (although not wholly) better at entertaining themselves?? Please tell me I am not wrong!
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When do kids get 'easier ' to look after?
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Lilysmum · 23/09/2003 11:22
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