Difference of opinion here between me and Himself.
Our boys have just come downstairs in the middle of a HUGE fight. I mean grabbing hold of each other, hitting, punching. A proper fight.
I was trying to break them up. Not an easy task because they are 10 and nearly 12 and actually almost as tall as me and bloody strong! And bloody angry.
My youngest managed to punch my eldest in the nose I got between them and held onto them both and they were reaching round me to continue to punch each other.
I was begging Himself to help me but he refused. His opinion was to step aside and let them carry on.
Now, I normally let them sort out their differences. I think it's important. But an out of control fist fight is different imo.
It's over now. I sorted it out and packed them off to seperate rooms.
But when your children are grabbing hold of each other and punching each other, do you let them fight it out for a bit or do you seperate them at once? and why do you have that policy?
Himself takes the view that boys fight. siblings fight and you have to let them fight it out. He says that I "broke it up too early"
I take the view that you have to let them sort out disagreements yes, and they are going to give each other a slap from time to time, but when they are punching each other in the face then you cannot allow that. and furthermore, you can't let them think that they can solve their problems by fighting.
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fist fights between your children. WWYD?
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HecateTheCrone · 19/03/2011 09:13
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