I have 2 dds- one toddler and a newborn. at the minute i am at the end of my tether. my dd2 is so needy, she wont sleep unless cuddled and screams and screams when put down. i feel like i am a terrible mother to dd1 who now gets virtually no 1-1 time with me as i have to hold dd2 constantly or leave her to cry. im afraid to leave her to cry as so many people say that its cruel/damaging. the only time i do leave her to cry i for twenty mins when i do bath/bed with dd1. and i feel awful about that.
and because i am getting so little sleep a dd2 wakes whenever i attempt to put her down i am getting angry with her. unreasonable i know, but i just get so frustrated and find myself almost hating her. i have shouted at her and said/thoguht terrible things.
my dh and i are also at each others throats and have been since dd2 was born, which doesnt help.
is this normal? will it get any better? i really dont know what to do
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I get so angry with my newborn dd2- Help
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pregnantpause · 03/03/2011 16:03
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