Sorry if this has been done before but tried a few search terms and can't find anything...
I am currently looking into childcare options for dc1 but already thinking about creating dc2 so will have two under school age. I had always assumed that when I had number two I would look after both of them at home but have been really surprised that many childcare providers (looking at nurseries and childminders) suggest keeping dc1 in for a couple of days a week once the second arrives. I thought this was the childcare people trying to keep the money rolling in, but having spoken to a few local mums, it seems to be fairly common practice.
My initial thought was that it is a huge expense that I would struggle to justify even if we can afford it and that it is my job to look after both my children (afterall, my mother managed it and countless others do!). However, I can see that it would be nice to have a couple of days alone with the newborn and as we have no family locally would be really useful to lighten the load. Maybe if we can afford it I should go for it rather than making life harder than it needs to be?
As dc2 is still not concieved, I am getting ahead of myself a bit but it will affect the choices I make regarding dc1's care.
Interested to hear other's views and experiences...
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Did you keep dc1 in childcare when you had dc2?
papillonrouge · 04/02/2011 21:42
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