My lovely (but persistant) 4 year old daughter will ask for something (say a biscuit) and I will say yes I'll get you a biscuit after I've put your DBs socks on. So then I go to get the socks, walk back in and she asks again. I tell her again that I'll get the biscuit after I've put the socks on. Then I will be trying to get DS to sit down to have his socks put on and she'll ask again. Then once I've got one sock on she will ask again! In the end I explode!
I don't understand why she keeps asking. She has the intelligence to understand what I am saying so all I can think is that she is either just not listening to what I am saying or just speaking without thinking about what she is going to say and the consequences (me getting really mad as i always do when she won't stop going on!)
She has always been like this and it drives me crazy. I know it's only a little thing but having the same thing said to you over and over makes you potty and makes me feel stressed and hassled all the time. Also it means I have less patience for DS as DD uses it all up.
Any ideas?
She also argues about everything, acts like she is in charge and generally when she is in trouble about something (usually argueing with us) and we have told her to stop speaking for a while she just can't! She'll just keep going on and on and it drives us crazy! I often have to put her in time out just to stop myself doing something I will regret!
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monkeyflippers · 02/01/2011 10:06
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