We are a close, loving family. I am extremely relaxed type and it takes alot to make me angry. Our house is happy and we all laugh and cuddle alot.
BUT DS1 has always had sleep problems. He didn't sleep through the night til he was 5 and now he is 6 he fights going to sleep with everything he has got - although once asleep he stays asleep.
If we are calm and understanding about his sleep issues he will be up and down until 11ish and he is totally exhausted. Not to mention we spend our whole evening dealing with him and other DC are woken up as he shouts so loudly when we send him back upstairs.
The only thing that 'works' is when we totally lose the plot with him, shout very loudly, yell, take toys away. He shouts back and argues but eventually stops.
The problem is that the shouting and yelling from me and DH is getting more intense and I find myself grabbing him hard and smacking his bottom and shouting very loud, very close to his face out of sheer frustration. It reaches this point perhaps once a week.
I KNOW this is totally wrong and I feel sick and ashamed writing it but something comes over me and it just happens. We always end up calm and cuddle and I apologise and so does he but I just do not understand my behaviour and need to stop
Nothing in my life has made me react like this.
He would love to sleep in our room - do we just do this ? We tried when he was younger and after a week or so the problem began again.
I LOVE my little boy more than anything and dread to think what memory this is creating. Its Christmas and we have just had the most horrible fight to get him to go to bed.
We do sometimes let him stay up later as a reward which worked well for a while but this has now become a battle point.
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I am becoming aggressive dealing with DS (6) sleep problems. Please help me stop
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peppermintpig · 22/12/2010 21:40
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