Dp takes dtwin boys 7 and dd6 swimming. The huge communal family changing rooms geared for swimming lessons get locked(selfishly don't even go there)by mums who choose to have the whole thing to themselves.
Soooo dp has been taking dd into the mens. Apparently she's been pointing and laughing at "willies" and dp thinks she's too old now but doesn't want to send her into the women's on her own.
I've told him to stop being so precious and just carry on in the men's but he really thinks it's not right. Obviously dp in the women's isn't OK?????
Surely it doesn't matter and isn't going to scar her,no different from the boys seeing grown up willies.
It's communal and she has a tendency to charge around penis pointing,he said he was mortified this evening.I'm suspecting the embarrassment is the real reason.
I feel she's too young to go in the women's on her own,the boys would be ok but would take hours without dp chivvying so who is right and what is changing room etiquette for dads and girls?Does it really matter if she catches a glimpse of the odd willy,she's surrounded by them at home.
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Which swimming pool changing room should dp take dd6 into?
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MilaMae · 13/12/2010 18:52
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