In my sons preschool class, there are only 4 5 year old boys, and this boy is one of them. His family is from Morocco, and they have lived in Norway for over 20 years. They speak fluent Norwegian. My son is friendly with this boy, and wants to do playdates with him.
I am on speaking terms with his mum, she is really nice and friendly.
He has turned down every birthday party invitation. And I did invite him to my sons halloween party, as I did not want him to feel excluded, though I had a suspicion that he would not come. His mum was good about that, explained that as a muslim family they did not really celebrate halloween, but said she was pleased her son was asked.
I dont want to offend, or be pushy.
The boy is currently unwell, but I had my sons other two friends home with me.
The preschool teacher pulled me up on this, saying I had to bear in mind there are 4 boys in his group, so should not really leave one out on a group playdate, so could I either please just ask ONE other boy at the time, or all, as it was sad for the child left out. It was all hypothetical, as the boy wasnt there.
So.....
Is there anything in particular I should bear in mind?
I was hoping to make an invite for next week. I reckon I will make a chicken and rice dish (rather than bangers and mash or lasagna). But what else?
Everything was so much more "integrated" in London.
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There is ONE muslim boy in my sons preschool.
QuintessentialShadows · 09/12/2010 21:21
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