Ok - so I'm not really going to ebay him, but we have gotten lost somewhere, and I do desperately need advice. And sorry for long post!
THE BACKGROUND: DS2 is 5 months old. For the past 6 weeks ish he has had nasty ear infections with two burst ear drums, but we have now got the all clear from the Dr. Prior to ear infection he was in a routine (ish) of sleeping 3-4 hours at night in his moses basket and all was well. DS1 is 4 and has always happily settled with anyone for cuddles etc.
THE PROBLEM: DS2 doesn't settle with anyone but me. ever. If I leave the room he screams, if I have a shower he screams, if he sits on anyone elses knee he screams, he won't go to sleep anywhere but the car or in my arms (doesn't stay asleep in the car when it stops) He won't settle with DH and will scream nonstop (longest so far is 1.5 hours while I had my haircut) We have fallen in to the habit of co-sleeping.. i.e I will cuddle him to sleep then put him in his cot, he wil wake up every 20 minutes or so until I pull him in to bed with us where he will stay for the night, feeding constantly (During the day he is going betweem 3-4 hours between feeds)He is solely BF although I am desperately trying to get him to take a bottle of formula in the hope it will help him bond with other people.
I am so tired I can't see the woods for the trees. I am not a definite 'routine' person, but this is not working for me, I need to start reclaiming some time now for DH, DS1 and me.
What would you do/have you done? I am willing to consider any advice, anything that helps. I am happy to keep doing night feeds..but I need some proper sleep in between!!
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ELMSTER · 18/11/2010 10:20
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