There are many posts on the AIBU board about MILs and it often seems the case that sons cannot stand up to their unreasonable mothers and support their wives who do not seem to be unreasonable.
As the mother of 2 young boys, I hope someday to be a MIL and grandparent but I am really keen to get that difficult balance right so my son/future DIL/SIL will value their relationship with me and not be stifled/annoyed/stressed. I would like my sons to be able to tell me if I am crossing a line; just like I can with my own mother.
What should I be aware of now in the way I mother my boys?
Is a difficult MIL relationship inevitable? My own MIL winds me up a lot although compared to some she is great but the relationship certainly isn't easy .... And this is 20 years down the line!
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Beccaboo2345 · 07/11/2010 17:08
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