It is my oldest friend's 40th birthday and she has invited me to go away with her for a week - with some other women - to an amazing resort, accommodation all paid for. It will mean leaving my 5.5 yr old and just 3 yr old with my DH for a week. My friend lives on the other side of the world and I haven't seen her in 6 years.
I was initially thinking why on earth shouldn't I do this, it's the trip of a lifetime?
But now I am beginning to worry that this is too long to leave my 3 yr old. My husband and I had a weekend away recently (first time in 2 years) and when we got back my DD2 was pretty clingy. I cant make the trip shorter as it is a VERY long way and the flights are on air miles - I've looked to see if I could come back earlier but nothing available.
I would be so disappointed to cancel, but I know I will miss my DDs and I feel selfish to go if it will have a bad effect on her.
She will be with her dad though, when she's not at nursery.
What do you think?
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Leaving 3 yr old for a week - having major doubts
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Kitsilano · 11/10/2010 10:50
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