This is DC3 and seems to be the worse one yet(although I seem to remember DC2 was pretty awful too). Here's a typical day (today)
5.40am He wakes has a bf, goes back to bed screaming for about 30 secs before settling.
7.00am gets up bf and breakfast
7.30-8.00am Clings to me and cries while I try to get DCs 1 and 2 ready for school.
8.00am - 8.45am Walk to school and back, may cry a bit if he thinks he is going to the CM.
9.00am - 11.30 am cries and whines while driving and shopping.
11.30 am - 2.00pm Lunch and nap THANK GOODNESS for the P and Q
2.00pm - 3.15pm bf then clingy behaviour (ie I can't leave the room for a second w/o him getting really upset) until school run.
3.30pm - 4.00pm OK, he potters on his own without needing me.
4.00pm - 6.45pm Crying and clinging during tea and after.
He is 15 months old and has a reputation locally as being miserable about which I am . I had to give up work once cos first CM found him too difficult to care for. New CM seems to manage him quite well. He has NEVER been happy and I don't know why it just upsets me because it is constant, he is making me a shouty mum and I have no time or patience for the other 2. DCs 1 and 2 were just as bad I suppose and they eventually grew out of it but what have I done wrong? I have really tried my hardest with them but I seem to be way off the mark in my parenting skills. Anyone been through this more than once? How do/ did you cope? Just feeling really
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Frog253 · 14/09/2010 21:09
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