She just mentioned today that she has seen a children's laptop and wants to buy one for 3 year old DD for Christmas. She knows I will probably say no. She got pretty upset last year when I vetoed her buying then 2 yo DD a children's portable DVD player (she bought her a life-sized doll instead - purely to punish me as I always joked about her buying one).
I promised DH and I would think about it before saying no. I tried telling her I think she is too young, what would she do on it anyway. I don't want her always in front of a screen. My mum says that technology is just going to be part of her life and I should just go with it, but I said I'd rather she did creative play, etc.
I don't know why my mum is so intent on buying her such grown up things ('but they're designed especially for young children').
I'm not wrong to say no am I? Is there a middle ground?
I'm not lentil weavery, I've let my mum buy all manner of crap for DD that I wouldn't necessarily chose for her, and I don't want to seem ungrateful, but I just think a laptop is really inappropriate for a 3 year old. She's got years of screen time ahead of her (she already watches too much TV), I'd like to put it off for as long as possible.
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Mum desperately wants to buy DD (3) a laptop for Christmas, how do I justify saying no without upseting her?
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Bumperlicious · 09/09/2010 19:29
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