FIL asked if he took take dd1 (2.5) on the bus for a day trip for an ice cream. GREAT i thought, ill get some chores done. and dd1 loves buses. so they did
came back 2 hrs later, FIL says they got the bus there, but while they were standing at the bus stop to come home FIL's neighbour (an ex policman) pulls up in his car and offers them a lift home - the man has no car seats in his car, stating "itll be fine, just strap her in the back"
PLUS dd1 came back with a huge bag of pick n mix, when she isnt allowed any