Can someone help me out here with a bit of advice. I went to a meeting about Nuchal Early Scanning with my friend tonight (she is pregnant, I am not, just the 'taxi' for her!!) and was shocked at the way the mw spoke about babies with Down Syndrome.
I realise she has to remain impartial and I would never dream of judging someone if they chose to abort if they found out they were having a DS baby (its not my place to) but I couldn't believe how flippant she was being when discussing it all.
She even said at one point "we picked up DS in 13 ladies due to the Nuchal Scan last year, 3 ladies who chose not to have it had DS babies and had to take their babies home with them"
had to take their babies home with them?????!!! What did she expect them to do with them? I know that another friend of mine who had a DS baby a few years ago (who has sadly passed away now due to cardiac problems) had a really rough time with him but she always says he was an absolute gift to her and she cherishes the short time they had together.
Am I seriously over reacting here?
This wasn't the only thing she said, she was also talking about the risks of Edwards Syndrome and Patau Syndrome and said "I wont go on about these two as the risks are very low and you'll probably miscarry if you have a baby with Patau Syndrome anyway" and then carried on with another slide.
Please tell me this is just a one off and not all mw's are like this!?
I would really like to complain about her but its not my place to (btw my pregnant friend was equally as shocked as me). My mum suggested talking to the DS society to let them know what was being said.
What do you think, sorry for such a long rant....
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sarjon · 01/08/2005 22:00
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