Could someone tell me whether it's normal for people to RSVP at the last minute to kids' parties (or not at all ), even though they've had the invitation for a month?!
I gave out invitations to ds' party (5 yrs old) nearly four weeks ago, and the RSVP date is only three days away. I know they've still got a few days, but I'm wanting to know if this is the norm. So far, four mothers have responded and nine have not!! Is this what people usually do? If I don't hear from some of the mothers by the RSVP date, should I chase them up? I've just got a feeling that there are some people who won't respond, and going by my friends' experiences, there will even be the ones who just don't turn up. I don't want to get ahead of myself here but I'm paying a certain amount of money for each child to attend the party, and I really need to know who's coming & who's not.
I know we're all busy, and this is not a priority to other people because it's not their child, but hey, how hard is it to write on a calendar or put things on a noticeboard. I always make sure I respond to invitations and it really peeves me that some people don't respond or even worse, don't turn up. As I said, I might be getting concerned too soon but I think it's because I've heard so many 'party horror stories' from other people.
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RSVP's and kids' birthday parties... GRRR
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Mandy03 · 14/07/2005 07:24
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