I'll try to make this as short as poss, i've just got of the phone to my mil - we are currently in usa for 6 months she's in uk - they are due to visit us in a few weeks for 2.5 weeks and i've just found out through her that my husband has told them its ok for them to stay with us rather than pay for a hotel, without even discussing it with me!!!! in addition she phones nearly everyday saying things like "the hildren won't remember me by the tiime we visit etc etc" what makes it worse is theat they (usually) live 5 minutes down the road from us and see the kids 3/4 times a week, whereas my parents live a couple of hours away and see them about once a month. I feel that they atre my children first and grandchildren second, do you think i'm being unreasonable and fell this way becuase she's an inlaw and not a "real" relative or am i justified in feeling this way, in addition am i right to feel angry with dh and feel he should be on my side (needs to cut the apron strings a bit) or am i putting him in an awkward position (between a rock and a hard place so to speak).
ok so it's not so short but i needed a bit of a rant
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chicagomum · 08/06/2005 17:06
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