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U AROUND BLUETEDDY???

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:27

How are you doing?

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:29

Hurrah! You managed to get on here!
I am feeling a little better due to my first large wine, which is helping numb everything a bit.
How about you?

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:32

I just nearly fell asleep upstairs in DS2's bed - am achey and exhausted - think i have been overdoing things the last few days!
Re - my head - am just trying to block everything that i am thinking out!
My mum saying irritating things to wind me up earlier didnt help. I think she know i am feeling down about some things and that all is not rosey with DH - but SHE pretends it isnt happening!

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:37

Oh bless you Tess.
I cannot believe the simularities in our life styles ATM!
It kind of helps to know we are not alone, but it does bring it all to the surface in your head doesn't it?
I have been thinking a lot about how shit things are in general today, how about you?

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:40

Yes - definately agree!!!! Everything is at the forefront of my mind!
Every little thing that DH did (or didnt do) said (or didnt say) made me think how hopeless everything was
I asked him for a tenner for DS1's tennis lesson at least twice and he STILL forgot!! Anything i say is just SOOO not important to him

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:42

BTW if i suddenly dissapear - it is because DH has come home - dont know WHEN that will be!

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:44

Thing is, I think they think they can treat us (& their kids) how they like, because they feel pretty secure that we won't leave.

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:45

THAT IS SOOOO TRUE

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:46

I am alright 4 the night, as he is on nights.
He really punished ds again today.
I couldn't hide it from him, because he could see I was upset after school & knows what that means.
He mentioned the naughty boys school again.

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:47

It is like - do you remember when i was with that bloke i was engaged to (J). He soooo worshiped the ground i walked on that i felt i could get away with anything (and DID in the end!!!!!)
Is this some kind of cruel Karma?????

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:47

It is SOOOO true isn't it???
Well I may soon make him realise that he cannot behave this way, because I have had enough!!!

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:48

Maybe it is!!!
I have walked over weedy men in my dark & distant past!

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:49

Why dont you try and talk to your DH about some kind of REWARD system. i.e - if you are a good boy at school today and join in with the activities you can choose *** toy tommorow????" Or at the end of the week / whatever

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:50

That is what i was thinking today - but how do you find the nerve to say "I cannot take anymore" and where do you go from there if they start ranting and raving and tell US to go!

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:52

We started that a while back, but it has all gone to pot recently.
Because I am not coping with myself right now, I am finding it hard to cope as a parent properly IYKWIM?

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:53

All I am going to say to that, is have you read stressedmummy's thread???

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 20:55

Will your DH go with you to the SENCO thing - prehaps he needs to - to realise that it is not your DS1's FAULT that he is behaving like this - at least i dont beleive it is- and that only TIME and possibly ignoring it will help more than punishment / reward??

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 20:58

I don't think it is ds's fault either really
He is coming along to the SENCO thing as they want to see us both.
I KNOW I will be a complete & utter wreck throughout!

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 21:01

Are YOU Stressedmummy???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 21:01

SHe lives near Dover BTW

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 21:03

I know!

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 21:05

I just posted on the stressedmummmy thread instead of THIS one - SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 21:06

I saw!!!
Are you impressed with my quickness tonight???!!!

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 21:11

Wow - what speed - have just been reading through your thread and even though we talked - at lenghth - yesterday - seeing it all in front of me on the screen - i feel soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Sad for you
Some of the ways that your DH has behaved in REALLY are unacceptable.

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blueteddy · 19/05/2005 21:13

I am sure to slip up soon!!!
I know they are unacceptable Tess.
It does look worse when it is all in front of you doesn't it?

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Tessiebear · 19/05/2005 21:21

Am gonna have to go now - neither DS's are asleep - and DH will be home soon - house a mess!!!
Speak 2morrowXXXXX

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