A surprise family get together has been organised for my great-aunt this afternoon. It is at her dd's home. I was thinking about making some cakes to take along as a kind gesture. Sometimes my kind gestures aren't see that way by other people so I am just wondering if it's the right thing to do. Her dd is organising everything and I don't know if she would be offended if I turned up with something.
Hard to see how she would be offended, but personally I would call and ask specifically what she would like for you to bring. She might have enough desserts but would appreciate another appetiser or side dish for example.