I will not be inviting one of my son's classmates to ds's 11th birthday party.
Reasons why:
He has been badly behaved at another party - shook up cans of fizzy drink and sprayed all the children and didn't stop when told off.
He can be physically pretty spiteful - dh saw him dragging a child across the playground by their hair.
ds and dh say they are 70% he stole a valuable toy when he last came round here (about a year ago). The party is going to be held in our home, we can't clear the room of all our stuff, so we need to trust the children who come round.
He is very defiant at school (I have talked about this on other threads)and dh and I find it diffucult to control him. Ds1 is afraid to be alone with him as he can be very naughty and ds finds it difficult to distance himself from trouble.
Also, he is not the only child who will not get a party invite, so he won't feel singled out exactly.
Why are we are holding a party at home?
It is ds's last year at the school and he wants to do this for his friends. Hiring a hall and disco and inviting all the class is inconvenient datewise and not good value for money. We have enough party space for about fifteen 11 year olds, so can easily cater for ds's friends.
However, and this is the point I go Ahhhh... the boy's mother does the school pick up for ds1 and 2. No one else offered to do it and if she feels snubbed, gets cross with me and stops the pick up I don't know what I will do.
Also, in the past (ie a year ago) ds and her son used to have the odd playdate, and we have invited him to previous parties ds has had.They boys were sort of friends, and I think the boy's mother still thinks they are. I expect she will be annoyed and hurt to find out that our ds is not inviting her ds to his party.
So should I say anything to the mother about the lack of a party invite? say nothing and cross my fingers? help, this is urgent as I need to get the invites out this week!
I haven't much computer time in the next day or so, so if I don't reply immediately, please bear with me.
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tigermoth · 12/04/2005 20:52
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