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EMBARRASSED and need advice

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noddyholder Tue 29-Mar-05 09:46:44

Last night ds 10 woke up after we had sex and he had heard usthis is a 1st and he asked me why I was making noise I was in the loo and shouted out that I didn't know what he was talking about but he persisted and I told him to get in bed in a bit of a stern tone he isn't up yet but i have hardly slept as I don't know what to say.Dp is at work on an early start and we are meeting him when he finishes at 2 so am onmy own with ds til then.I have toyed with the idea of saying I had a sore neck(i do) and daddy was massaging it but sounds such a lie help me someone tell me he won't be affected by this

colditzmum Tue 29-Mar-05 09:50:37

I wouldn't think so. He has probably had sex ed at school, so he knows you and dp must have done "it" at least once!

I caught my mum and dad at it when I was about 11, they were a lot more bothered than I was. I knew they did do it, just couldn't imagine why (God, so old, why bother)!!!!!!

TracyK Tue 29-Mar-05 09:51:09

Is he an 'old' 10 or a 'young' 10. You could always say daddy was just tickling you or special cuddles?

Sponge Tue 29-Mar-05 09:53:00

Just tell him that mum and dad were playing a game - tickling fight, pillow fight?

noddyholder Tue 29-Mar-05 09:54:00

He didn't see us as he is upstairs but he heard and came halfway down to where we are and started questioning me.He didn't seem to think dp was involved kept asking why I was making funny noiseand a million moreHe is quite sensible and knows about sex but I am dying with the thought of more questions today

Sponge Tue 29-Mar-05 09:54:24

Don't worry, even if he does realsie what you were doing it won't traumatise him. I walked in on my parents once and it didn't bother me that much.

anorak Tue 29-Mar-05 10:02:56

You're worried, but I bet he's forgotten already!

Freckle Tue 29-Mar-05 10:12:33

Tbh, if he heard you making a "strange" noise, he might have been worried that something was wrong. Telling him the truth might actually put his mind at rest.

noddyholder Tue 29-Mar-05 16:08:34

thanks all he got straight up this morning as I knew he would and started asking questions I said daddy was massaging my neck and he said he thought we were doing'IT'I laughed and said we weren't but even if we were it is private etc etc he was much cooler about it than me tbh

noddyholder Wed 30-Mar-05 11:21:43

thanks all for your reassurance we met dp from work yeasterday and he brought it up again we laughed it off and it is now old news but was sooooo emabaressing at the time terrified to have sex now well thats my excuse

Keane Wed 30-Mar-05 11:39:05


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