My friend's dad has passed away and I'll be going to the funeral this week.
I am ridiculously emotionally incontinent and I know that if I start crying at the funeral I'll end up snorting and gulping at a ridiculous volume.
Whilst I know that it's natural to cry at funerals I don't want to disrespect or take attention away from her family by opening my blubbing floodgates as I feel my grief is way down the pecking order from theirs IYSWIM, and I'd really like to be able to just squeeze into a pew at the back and keep calm.
Would something herbal sedate me a little do you think or is it all placebo?
no, its drops which you can put directly on your tongue or put in some water. You can also get a spray which is quite handy. Its not the nicest of tastes, btw, byt I find it doesn't linger and, as I said, I really find it works. I even used mine when in labour!