I was looking through dh's emails (wasn't snooping, I always check them for him and use it for my Paypal account)when I saw an email from a mutual friend who dh had told me had just got engaged and I opened it. It was a reply to one dh had sent and congratulating him etc then offering some advice from a battle scarred veteran of marriage- that marriage was like white water rafting- bl**dy challenging but ultimately satisfying.
Not sure how to respond to this- is it a positive endorsment of our marriage or what? Ok, probably reading too much into it but had no idea that any parts of our relationship were challenging
Really want to say that there is no issue of me reading private emails- dh knows I check it for him and always asks if he's got any new emails.
No it's def Ok to read them. I'm fairly sure he knows I read it last night. We just read each others post, emails etc as we know we have nothing to hide. I wasn't reading it to check up, I'm just nosy.
However, I hate water and would never go white water rafting.