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SO BLOODY ANGRY!!!

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amynnixmum · 17/02/2005 11:08

I am spitting with rage. Sorry this is a rant but i need to vent. My next door neighbours have lived next door for about 3 years now. In that time i have had to put up with rubbish being chucked over the fence and also into the front garden and on the roofs of my porches (even had used sanitary towels a couple of times). They are also very noisy and play miusic loud with the windows wide. I have very rarely complained in order to keep the peace and have just ignored it. Last year their drain got blocked and they did nothing about it for weeks. The smell got so bad that in the end I had to ask them to do something about it. They sorted it out but TBH I can't believe that they didn't do it themselves before - it was really disgusting! At the moment they have a huge pile of rubbish in their back garden that has been there for weeks.
So basically for these last 3 years i have been living next to and tolerating the dirty, messy, noisy people. The chap who lives next door the other side of these people has complained loads of time about the noise and now goes away nearly every weekend to avoid it.
Last sat night at about 11.30 i heard another neighbour outside and stuck my head out the window. She was having an impromtu party and invited me over. As she walked past my Next door neighbours window the women (S) made some sarky comment about people needing sleep. Could not beleive this when I was told as her girls had been just as noisy at midnight the night before and I had said nothing. My friend is next door but one to this women so there was no way the music could have been disturbing her. MY friend was furious and put a note through her door saying "sorry about the noise - now you now how it feels" and put down the numbers of the 4 closest houses at the bottom. The next day S had a go at my other next door neighbour about the note and said she was going to speak to us all individually. Well needless to say she hasn't said a word. She picked on my other next door neighbour as she saw her as a soft touch.
A couple of days ago ny children were in the garden playing and they kicked the ball over the fence. I was inside but heard S telling DS not to climb over the fence to get it as she would come down and throw it back. I banged on the window at him to tell him off and told him to say sorry to S and to say thankyou when she threw the ball back. A few minutes later he threw it over again (he is only 4 so aim not good). I then told him to come inside because I didn't want him chucking another one over. This morning I came downstairs and the ball has been cut in half and thrown back in our garden. I am so angry with S - I nearly charged straight round there but was still in PJs. My hands are still shaking!!! Can't believe that she could take her fustrations out on a child - if she had a problem with me she should have been an adult about and come to see me. Until now I have not had any particular feeling about her or her family at all - I neither liked or disliked them. I have lent them numerous things over the last 3 years and have always been friendly and then she does something like this. GRRR. . Have rung the council to complain about her rubbish now and will definately speak to her later when i calm down. .

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Merlin · 17/02/2005 11:13

Hi amynnixmum - sorry to hear you've got the neighbours from hell! What did the council say? Is there anything they can do? I agree the woman shouldn't have cut up the ball - thats dreadful - she should at least behave like an adult and come round and talk to you rationally about it. Hope you get something sorted out before it gets worse.