I and another collegue have found our situation at work unbearable for more than a year now. After yesterday DC could take no more and went off sick today with stress, she is 6 months pregnant and only 4 weeks away from maternity leave. After another incident today, I left work at my usual time and desided I could take no more. We met up and talked it all through and came to the conclusion that enough is enough and we had to take a stand.
The problems started when a manager from our other project became manager of both projects. (we work for a charity, community alcohol rehab)
10 people have left (very unhappy) in the past year. I myself have not been bullied directly but have had to wittness the bullying of others. Then today at staff meeting our manager laid into me, she was so loud, dismissing and intimidating I fell silent and waited for end of shift. I was himilliated.
There is a flagrant disregard for health and safety and as we work with a caotic client group we feel threatened and unprotected.
Policies are continually broken by the organisation and moral couldn't get any lower. We were once a bright enthusiastic team and now we are nervous, inconfident and affraid to speak out as 'you don't want to rock the boat'
We have rang our diector today and told her we were signed off sick and that we have some serious issues to raise with her. We told her we would like to speak to her and the HR on Monday. Trouble is, these complaints have been raised many times by many people and nothing has ever been done. Our diector seems also to disregard us, we are not confident.
I know what we are doing is right, I feel my integrety has bee compromised for so long that I can't just do nothing, after all whats the worse that can happen? and can things be much worse?
We have likened it to being in a domestic violence situation where you just keep hoping the next day will be better.
So often in my life I have walked away from situations for a quiet life and not made a stand. Those occations have stayed with me ever since. But, I am so scared now, I feel they are going to chew us up and spit us out. They are dishonest and can be quite intimidating
We feel we should bring an independent wittness with us into the meeting to absorb all thats been said.
I am sooooo scared, can anyone help, we are two little fish in what seems like a massive pond however it's actually just a county based charity.
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Enchanted · 10/02/2005 00:10
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